Brian and Delara broke with tradition for the seating processional and recessional, and gave me [her new sister-in-law] an escort to music. I was the first one seated (right before the grandparents) -- and the first one escorted back out. Delara was a bridesmaid in our wedding and Brian was the best man -- so this was their way of making me a part of things. I was very touched at the surprise. I also found it quite humorous as people were whispering not so quietly, "Who's she?", as I went through the processional and then the recessional. (LOL!)

The ceremony was candlelit, and was presided by Judge Carol Hansen. The aisle chairs were decorated with white tulle bows. The couple exchanged their own vows -- but unfortunately no one heard them. They didn't think to request a microphone, and the best man couldn't even